Make a Christmas memory that your kids will remember when you pick and cut down your own Christmas tree at Penland Christmas Tree Farm.
Twinkling Lights, Santa and Botanical Whimsy at Daniel Stowe's Holidays at the Garden
Check out the awe-inspiring gingerbread creations at the Ballantyne Hotel for FREE!
Sunday, January 25, 2015
Friday, December 26, 2014
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- Upon arrival at restroom begin your 15 second interval reminder "don't touch anything!"
- Begin negotiations with toddler that they are going to go potty. Yes here, yes - now.
- Pray the handicap option is open because you'll need to shove yourself, toddler, older child and stroller all in there together.
- Begin lining toilet with copious amounts of toilet paper that will fall off at least once because your toddler is twirling causing it to fall off (but at least for these 5 seconds - isn't touching anything while twirling)
- Re-line toilet with copious amounts of toilet paper.
- Begin negotiations with toddler that they can't line the toilet with paper, because it's a mommy job.
- View the look of the devil in their eye as toddler sizes up how mad you'll get if they knock said toilet paper off the toilet again and verbally warn them not to touch the toilet paper.
- Pull down pull up and acknowledge toddlers excitement and pride that yes, his penis is still there and look mommy it's his penis.
- Position child tenuously on toilet seat while toddler expresses concerns about their falling in, that you have found the one and only potty for GIANTS, and that they don't have to go potty anyway.
- Once placement is confirmed monitor child's hand grip as to assure they not touch the bare (barf) toilet seat.
- If a boy stuff large wad of toilet paper to deflect any mis-aimed urination. Pee on my shoes once, my bad. Pee on my shoes twice - clearly mommy hasn't caught on..
- Begin negotiations with toddler about what they will do on the toilet - poop? pee? the world is their oyster - digress to telling them they can do #1, #2 or #1 AND #2 - it's up to them.
- Agree with toddler as they adamantly inform you only #1 is on the table for discussion.
- Answer toddler questions about what every noise in the bathroom is.
- Answer toddler inquiry about if you too will go potty, and if so - when and where and how.
- Respond to older child's complaint that they now too have to pee - SUPER BADLY! and assure older child toddler will be done in just a moment and then they can go.
- Begin talks with toddler to hurry up and go pee pee - to which sensing their siblings distress has decided to try for #2, which will no doubt take upwards of a century to complete.
- Strain to hear if any tinkling has taken place, which is hard to hear over the induced toddler grunting as they attempt for #2.
- Check pull up for wetness, if wet reply to demands for a new pull up with a different character because the one your brought is the WRONG ONE.
- Assure toddler all the Jake pull ups are in the car and you will change them into it upon arrival at the car.
- Pray toddler will forget that promise.
- Rip off old pull up, weave on new pull up all while being verbally chastised for your poor taste in pull up characters.
- Begin additional encouragement to hurry the process along as older child begins to do the pee-pee dance.
- Warn toddler they have only a minute to complete process and assure a treat if process is completed within the minute.
- Begin negotiations on who will flush the toilet.
- Explain to toddler through their now streaming tears and red face that toilets at the mall cannot be flushed by big kids - only mommies are allowed the honor.
- Decide toddler potty time is up and remove child from toilet completely unsure if toddler has completed said business.
- Pull on pull up and acknowledge that it is, in fact, still the incorrect pull up.
- Begin multi-attempt re-lining process single-handedly as you restrain toddler from trying to flush toilet.
- Now use legs as well in this full body experience to guide toddler away from the tampon box can and back toward the bathroom door.
- Set older child on potty.
- Begin negotiations with toddler for washing hands, answer questions about how, where and why this event shall take place.
- Direct toddler not to unlock the bathroom door or touch - anything.
- Remove older child from potty, confirm adequate wiping.
- Reassure toddler once again only mommies can flush toilet.
- Direct toddler toward sinks.
- Lift toddler amidst kicking and yelling that they want to push the soap themselves.
- Attempt to soap up hands enough to disinfect them and dissuade your worries that they have now become carrier monkeys of some awful illness from somehow touching something you didn't see.
- Lean toddler to the faucet amidst toddler doing 'the worm' mid-air because they want to turn the water on themselves.
- Get splashed in the face as toddler enjoys the unexpected wildly inappropriate pressure of said faucet.
- Begin negotiations regarding how many pieces of paper towel toddler deems appropriate for drying off.
- Begin negotiations with toddler for how to dispose of said paper towel - don't touch the garbage can - ugh - too late.
- Plop toddler in stroller as you help older child with hand washing and wash hands yourself.
- Emerge from public restroom battle worn quite certain victorious isn't close to how you feel.
- Remind yourself there is a reason you don't leave the house that often.
Friday, December 19, 2014
Friday, December 12, 2014
- Pre-K 1-2 days a week had a gift giving mode of $21-$30.
- Pre-K 3-5 days a week had a gift giving mode of $11-$20.
- K-6 had a gift giving mode of $21-$30.
- Daycare Full-time had a gift giving mode of $21-$30.
- Daycare Part-time had a gift giving mode of $11-$20.
Respondents had annual salaries ranging from $0 to more than $200K, however the largest number of respondents had an annual household salary of $100,000 - $124,999 (22%) with an annual household salary of $75,000 - $99,999 being the second largest number of respondents (18%). Interestingly, I found that there was not a large correlation with average household income and the amount of money parents reported they planned to spend for households making over $75,000 per year.
A huge holiday thank you to all of the wonderful men and women who educate and care for our children all year round. A survey can tell us what people are spending on gifts - but you are truly priceless!
Monday, December 1, 2014
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Our gingerbread house kits at home don't hold a candle to the gingerbread inspired works of art that line Ballantyne Hotel's Gingerbread Lane. Each year both professional and amateur confectionery artists compete for prizes by submitting their awe inspiring interpretation on gingerbread houses, mansions and villages. The frosting laden details are impeccable, and the price to visit (FREE) is perfect! It's a fun holiday must-see here in Charlotte.
The pictures below are from a few years ago, but the kids are excited to check out Gingerbread Lane each year.
They have lots of fun events planned throughout the evening. Check out their calendar of events here, which include s'more making by the bonfire ($3.75 for the kit), kids crafts, horse drawn carriage rides (additional cost), garden express tram rides and carolers.
Plus... SANTA! So... E wasn't so into it, but he did give me at least a few non-smile, non-crying shots. He was cajoled into sitting on Santa's lap with candy canes - I know my kid's currency...
Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden runs Holidays at the Garden from 11/22/13 - 12/31/13, noon to 9pm, with lights twinkling at 5pm. The cost is $12 per adult and $6 for kids 4-12.